Is God Real?

Is God Real?

There – Ethan struck me with the ultimatum question. “Is God Real?” – whilst I was busy cooking away our dinner. I nearly dropped whatever I was doing.

But I didn’t.

I could either stop doing the cooking and just asked him to take a seat and have a proper discussion about it or I could just brushed it off as if I didn’t hear what he was saying or understood what he was saying.
  
Again he persisted: “Is God Real, Mum?”
  
“What do you think?” I asked casually and calmly.
   
“Na – I don’t think so. ‘Cos at school the teacher said that God created the World in just seven days! That’s impossible!”
  
“Why is that?”
  
“Because that can’t be right. The dinosaurs were here first – before God.” (If you have been following my blog you would have noticed that Ethan is all about dinosaurs.)
 
“How do you know? Perhaps, God created dinosaurs too.”
 
“God created a man and a women. That means the dinosaurs were here before.”
  
“I don’t really know Ethan. Nobody’s know.” I did not argue with him there. I continued, “God is a faith, a religious belief just like or similar to any other religion for example – like Buddhism, they have a God too – but a different kind of God. In Thailand, most people follow Buddhism. In England, most people follow Christianity. You are a kind of half and half. People pray for God for different reasons or that when they want something to happen.”
  
“Like what?”
  
“Emmm… like…” I rattled my brain quickly – winning the lotto? Nope – that’s a bad example. “Like… keeping a good health and that your family are safe.”
 
“But is God really real?” (Perhaps, I didn’t quite explain that so well.)
  
“I really don’t know Ethan. But it is good to have a faith. Faith keeps people happy. Do you think God is real?”
  
“Na – I don’t think so. Because The dinosaurs were here first – before God.”  Then Ethan ran off merrily out of the kitchen.
  
O k a y . . .
  
  
To my readers, neither my OH or myself are strictly religious. My OH has inherited the Christianity from his family. I was inherited Buddhism from mind. Thus, I was raised in an All-Girls Catholic boarding school in England since the age of 10 year old. I love going to the church and participate in all kind of Christianity activities. I was even in the school Church Choir! I enjoy singing and somedays I even pray to God to help me with my crisis. In fact, I seem to be praying to both Gods now-a-day. Some people would say I have an identity crisis. Some would go as far as saying that I am in actually fact – an atheist.
   
I guess what I am trying to explain to Ethan is that Religious give people labels, but really we are all the same. We pray for safety and no more wars. We pray that we are to be kind each other, to have compassion, integrity, generosity, and empathy. I want Ethan to find his own path and not for me to impose it upon him.
   
Although, in the past he has been in his school novelty plays, playing the Shepherd and all sorts, and that’s a lovely thing to see; and in the Summer we talked to him into becoming a little Buddhist monk for a day for his GrandDad’s cremation ceremony. This is seen as a very honourable way to pay respect to your elders in Buddhism. I would never forget that day nor will I forget him playing a Shepherd on the stage at his school novelty play.
   
In two days time, we will be going to a Church Service with friends who are also not at all religious but it is something that they enjoy doing. I say why not – if you enjoy doing something – then I think it is perfectly acceptable to believe in whatever you want to believe – that you at least have faith in humanity at the very least.
Su {Ethan & Evelyn}

Su blogs at Ethan & Evelyn. Ethan (7) & Evelyn (4) are her children. Her blog was originally an online diary but quickly transformed. She blogs about their life adventures of her experiences of motherhood, lifestyle, food, crafts, and travel. Her blog was awarded the Coupon Machine Travel Blog Top100 (#37) in 2016. The #MadBlogAwards 2016 Nominated for Best Craft Blog, Best Family Travel Blog, and Best Preschool Blog. She is a now a Freelance Writer, a Photographer, Co-creator of #ExplorerKids IG community. Host of #FabFridayPost and #ExplorerKids Linkys. And a Kids Yoga Teacher too! Connect with her on Twitter & Instagram @ethannevelyn

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17 Comments

  1. 23/12/2016 / 11:35 am

    What a great post Su, and an honest answer for Etahn too. My Mrs, she was raised Christian and I was raised Jewish. Neither of us are particularly religious. I practice Tai Chi much more than I practice Judiasm — and for teh holiday season we take the best of both worlds. We have two small trees, one a real pine, table top tree, one bright purple! We are decorating both. We also light the candles for Hannukah. Most importantly, we try to teach kindness and empathy to our kids. The holidays are about family and love and kindness. If they want to choose a religion some day, that is their choice. We just choose to be good people. Hope you and yours have a terrific holiday season and a very happy, healthy New Year! xoxo

    • 30/12/2016 / 1:08 am

      Thank you Lisa. I would love to learn Tai Chi. The kids do get the best of both worlds don’t they. And you are absolutely right – all I can do is guide them to be good people. That’s all that matters. xx

  2. 23/12/2016 / 2:29 pm

    My youngest debunked the bible at age four. We told her about Noahs Ark and she disspelled that real fast.

    SO now we teach faith over organized religion.

    • 30/12/2016 / 1:11 am

      Wow! I like it when kids uses logic which I can not explain in some form or another. lol! xx

  3. 23/12/2016 / 2:40 pm

    Ethan sounds so mature and thoughtful, I think it was a great answer you gave. We do not believe in God and yet I will allow my children to make their own minds up on that. My eldest, 12, decided years ago that he didn’t believe in God, despite attending a church school, but my youngest three may choose to follow religion. I think it’s something that you decide for yourselves. #fabfridaypost

    • 30/12/2016 / 1:13 am

      I think so too. It is really hard to explain something that I don’t have an answer to. xx

  4. 23/12/2016 / 3:41 pm

    I have to admit I was a little leery of reading this as we aren’t religious. Well, not in the sense most people think. I think it’s great that you want your kids to believe in whatever they want to believe. 🙂 #fabfridaypost

    • 30/12/2016 / 1:15 am

      Thank you for reading Alicia. I think Ethan now is coming to an age of more questions for meaningful answers. xx

  5. 23/12/2016 / 3:52 pm

    Such a tricky one! It’s really hard to bring up children without influencing their views. I’m an atheist myself but want my kids to make up their own minds and be open to other peoples religion. #FabFridayPost Badge

    • 30/12/2016 / 1:22 am

      It is indeed. I think if I have not inherited Buddhism then an atheist I would be too. I too want them to be open to other people religion as well. xx

  6. 23/12/2016 / 5:27 pm

    Hard questions to answer but I think you handled that very well. I think that exposing children to various religions is a good thing. Each faith has something to teach us. #FabFridayPost

  7. 24/12/2016 / 12:39 am

    Ah my kids have hit me with these questions over the years too, though I think questioning Santa and the Tooth Fairy came first. Sounds like you handled it in the best way. Giving kids exposure to religion and letting them make their own choices feels the right way to me. Mine all went to a local C of E church primary school, but they still all questioned everything. Thanks for the link up. Merry Christmas from Coombe Mill

    • 30/12/2016 / 1:27 am

      Actually, Ethan also asked me about Santa the other day too. If the Santa in Hitchin is real? He also said that Evelyn has more presents than him because there was a Santa visit at Evelyn’s school! lol! There is so much jealousy there! lol! But I pretended not to have heard him and changed the subject altogether. I am just not ready to grow up yet! lol! xx

  8. 24/12/2016 / 4:24 pm

    My kids ask questions about God all the time. The go to a C of E school so religion is part of their every day teaching. I personally am not religious. If they ask a question I can’t answer I usually say “oh, why don’t you ask your teacher” ha ha. Sarah #FabFridayPost

    • 30/12/2016 / 1:30 am

      Haha! That’s a good one. I think I will try that next time. lol! You made me laughed. xx

  9. Fiona jk42
    20/12/2017 / 7:03 pm

    I think you handled this well. I believe it’s important to raise children so that they can make up their own minds rather than imposing any religious dogma on them. I hate when I see written in the newspapers “Christian children” or “Muslim children”. They are just children and should not be forced into one religion or another, though unfortunately many parents who are believers of a particular religion think it is their duty to raise their kids in that religion.

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